diff --git a/view/who.go b/view/who.go
index 3d58dea..e7067d4 100644
--- a/view/who.go
+++ b/view/who.go
@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@ import (
 	"local/dndex/storage/operator"
 	"net/http"
 	"sort"
+	"strings"
 
 	"github.com/buger/jsonparser"
 	"go.mongodb.org/mongo-driver/bson"
@@ -174,7 +175,7 @@ func whoPatch(namespace string, g storage.Graph, w http.ResponseWriter, r *http.
 	}
 	relationship := one.Relationship
 	one.Relationship = ""
-	if err := g.Insert(r.Context(), namespace, one); err != nil {
+	if err := g.Insert(r.Context(), namespace, one); err != nil && !strings.Contains(err.Error(), "ollision") {
 		return err
 	}
 	one.Relationship = relationship
diff --git a/view/who_test.go b/view/who_test.go
index ba1b344..abdac35 100644
--- a/view/who_test.go
+++ b/view/who_test.go
@@ -193,6 +193,52 @@ func TestWho(t *testing.T) {
 		}
 	})
 
+	want = ones[4]
+	t.Run("patch real against existing", func(t *testing.T) {
+		from := ones[4]
+		push := ones[10].Peer()
+		push.Relationship = "spawn"
+		b, err := json.Marshal(push)
+		if err != nil {
+			t.Fatal(err)
+		}
+		r := httptest.NewRequest(http.MethodPatch, "/who?namespace=col&id="+from.Name, bytes.NewReader(b))
+		w := httptest.NewRecorder()
+		handler.ServeHTTP(w, r)
+		if w.Code != http.StatusOK {
+			t.Fatalf("%d: %s", w.Code, w.Body.Bytes())
+		}
+		got := entity.One{}
+		if err := json.NewDecoder(w.Body).Decode(&got); err != nil {
+			t.Fatal(err)
+		}
+		if fmt.Sprint(got) == fmt.Sprint(from) {
+			t.Fatal(got)
+		}
+		got.Modified = 0
+		from.Modified = 0
+		if len(got.Connections) != len(from.Connections)+1 {
+			t.Fatal(len(got.Connections), len(from.Connections)+1)
+		}
+		gotPush, ok := got.Connections[push.Name]
+		if !ok {
+			t.Fatal("cant find pushed connection from remote")
+		}
+		got.Connections = nil
+		from.Connections = nil
+		if fmt.Sprint(got) != fmt.Sprint(from) {
+			t.Fatalf("without connections and modified, got != want: want \n   %+v, got \n   %+v", from, got)
+		}
+		pushPeer := push.Peer()
+		gotPush = gotPush.Peer()
+		pushPeer.Modified = 0
+		gotPush.Modified = 0
+		if fmt.Sprint(gotPush) != fmt.Sprint(pushPeer) {
+			t.Fatal("\n", gotPush, "\n", pushPeer)
+		}
+		t.Logf("%s", w.Body.Bytes())
+	})
+
 	want = ones[2]
 	t.Run("patch real", func(t *testing.T) {
 		iwant := want
@@ -299,7 +345,7 @@ func TestWho(t *testing.T) {
 }
 
 func fillDB(t *testing.T, g storage.Graph) []entity.One {
-	ones := make([]entity.One, 5)
+	ones := make([]entity.One, 25)
 	for i := range ones {
 		ones[i] = randomOne()
 		if i > 0 {