todo:
- send matrix msg on config change
- rm email
- modify old items once no longer available
- many users -> 1 ntg query
- accept after date
- "caleb: my-usual-stuff" to alias
- rate LIMIT
- more than NTG
- accept pause commands
- rate limit brokers
- write to matrix on config change like states
- todo: filter out jobs like CA
  subtasks:
  - banlist criteria like vendors, brokers, metadata
- quiet hours
- setup ma on element
- accept states via element for one system
- set up copy for caleb, broc
done:
- setup pa on element
- configurable email interval
- jitter on intervals, including dedicated err span
- email doesnt get all matches
- send jobs
- read jobs
- parse jobs
- gather jobs
- read states
- read email to state file from local/sandbox/contact/contact